News flash to self. If I put my attention on how I don’t trust the masculine, then the masculine will show up looking untrustworthy.

I got a reflection yesterday from a dear friend who showed me just how unfriendly and unyielding I have been with my man.

I have been waiting for him to “man up.” Telling him I’m going to test him and wait to see the result, not realizing that I HAVE been testing him, relentlessly, and he’s been standing strong and I just haven’t seen it because I was looking for untrustworthiness, and therefore, that’s what I found.

Are things perfect now? Of course not, we’ll drift as we drift, but in this moment, all I am seeing around me is the support and wisdom and trustworthiness of the masculine, and of my man in particular.